I've been writing since I was fourteen years old--thirty years now. I started publishing my writing for public consumption on the now-defunct MySpace in the early 2000s, and this blog (Pater Familias) exists now as the third edition iteration of two previous blogs: Rob's Fobs (May 2006-June 2011), and Wisdom and Folly (Dec 2015-). In totality, I've written and published over 1,400 digital essays on faith, life, and everything in between in the past eighteen years. It's been for me as much as it has been for you, my readers.
As St. John says in scripture, "this world is passing away...but the one who does the will of God lives forever" (1 Jn 2:17). I think the same can be said about our enamored relationship with the digital landscape. The medium is accessible, cheap, easy, convenient, and far reaching with a low bar of entry. It allows one to shovel the coal furnace with the fodder of content en perpetua, in a kind of Sisyphean fashion with no beginning and no real end. But it has reached the point where--at the decades long (loving) nagging of my wife--the need to ensconce that pile of digital literary coal in the tangible amber of a fossil has arisen. The TLDR version of all this, in the words of my wife: "I want a book....and you're going to write it."
A testament can be defined as a tangible proof or tribute, an expression of conviction, or an act by which a person determines the disposition of his or her property after death. And so after many years, and eight months of compiling and editing, I'm happy to announce that this testament has fossilized in the publication of Wisdom and Folly: Essays on Faith, Life, and Everything in Between (Cruachan Hill Press). For anyone who is interested, you can order from Amazon here.
The 389 page volume is a compilation of eighty-six of my very best essays written over the last eight years, divided into nine topical sections: On Friendship, On Discipleship, On Marriage, On Family, On Manhood, On Faith, On Prayer, On the Church, and On Writing. Each essay is easily digestible and able to be read independently of one another, with plenty of "meat on the bone" for meditation sans fluff and filler. You'll definitely get your money's worth.
A little teaser from the Foreword, written by my friend Kevin Wells:
"For those unfamiliar with Marco and the countless hundreds of articles and blogs he’s written, you’re in safe hands. Why? Each of these essays stems from where the Holy Spirit led him in prayer. Marco is intensely devoted to meditative prayer, scripture, spiritual reading, and ordered living. He is the least arrogant man you will ever meet, the kind of neighbor who seems to sit in wait for you to ask for a cup of sugar or a stick of butter. Those who know him say he is a happy old soul with an unbudging devotion to Christ and His Church.
This book will lift you into the richness of storytelling and into the soul of a man with a zeal for God. His unique perspectives on modern Catholic life and the jarring manner of his candor will stick to the ribs of your memory and conscience. My advice, as one who has read Marco for years now, take in an essay or two with your morning or evening prayer, close your eyes, and meditate on where the Lord “took you” through Marco’s words. In time, you might see where a particular essay/s in Wisdom and Folly has become a personal invitation from your Heavenly Father to see a blind spot, convert, and to come to know Him in a more intimate way."
You may be a faithful reader of Pater Familias for years now, or you may just be discovering this blog. Either way, for those of you who pine for something tangible, something meaty, something beyond the digital content of the age which is here today and forgotten tomorrow, I'd encourage you to consider ordering a copy and sharing either this blog post, or the order link, with others.
More importantly, if you do so and enjoy the book, I would be grateful if you would be willing to write and submit a 5-star review on Amazon, as reviews carry a lot of weight (especially for those unfamiliar with the work). My hope is that this compilation will fortify Catholics in their faith, lead unbelievers to question their trajectory, and in all things glorify God for His goodness and the gift of faith He extends to all who seek it with earnest and humble hearts. My hope is simply that God will use this work of heart for His purposes.
I'd also like to thank those who have faithfully read this blog over the years. I will continue to write here weekly, as I always have. I have never monetized it, nor sought anything except to glorify God and do the work of a disciple of Jesus Christ investing the meager talent he has afforded me rather than burying it in the field (which, admittedly, I have been tempted to do from time to time). I desire to stay true to that purpose, and appreciate your prayers for purity of heart and intention. I hope this book will be a testament to that work for years to come.
What an achievement! Praise God! Thank you to Debbie too:)
ReplyDeleteAre you Rob or Paul? I think I got confused. I am happy for you and this new chapter in your life! “No guts no glory….. “, married to combat Marine-expert rifleman in Viet Nam. Anyway you got guts….. I appreciate your blog though do not always agree. I wish you the best and hope your book helps many others. I believe you mean to help…. God Bless
ReplyDeleteThanks for commenting, Anonymous. I am glad people can read and appreciate without always agreeing...it means people are thinking for themselves, which is a good thing!
DeletePaul is my moniker/pseudonym for this blog (it is both my middle name and I think appropriate because the great Apostle is a model for me). I should probably do a post on that one day, why I choose to continue to write under this name; I originally did so to try to maintain some anonymity, but those days are unfortunately long gone now. I have gone back and forth as to whether to update my profile with my real name, but decided against it if nothing else so as to maintain the original spirit with which I started writing this blog years ago. I want people to read because of the content, not the author, and take from it what they benefit from and leave the rest.
Guts is one thing I don't have...just trust in God. It's what I lean on, and the prayers of others who hold up on my arms as well.
God bless, and thank you.